There are moments in the lives of all people, and in the lives of all families, that just slip past unnoticed never to become an indelible memory. The framework of the period exists with only the most basic tidbits of information. Things like where people worked, what state they may have been in, or even what grade someone was in at school are just a few of the rudimentary blocks that remain. Nothing of note has left an imprint.There are no tales, no shocking pieces of gossip or family drama to help cement events into the collective conscious of those who lived through the time. It is the forced mental hibernation particular to January when almost everything freezes in the brackish, grey ice of an east coast winter.
It is the first month of the last year of the 1960’s: a decade of chaotic - often unwanted – change, upheaval and tragedy. Where once, just a few months earlier, the Beatles sang about revolution they now only asked for everyone to just let it be. And after perfroming from a rooftop, the Beatles retired from public performances and were never seen together again. This maybe would have struck a tragic chord within our own family had my older sister been a Beatles fan and not a Rolling Stones fan. Whatever the song, at the end of the 1960’s, everyone was just coming down.
Number one hit from January, 1969 Crimson and Clover, Tommy James and the Shondells
It has been a fact of my life that while I am often unable to remember what I had for dinner last night I can tell you of each and every song I enjoyed through most of my 38 years. Clearly, it would be impossible for me to recall the songs I heard while I was, for instance, 5 months old, but there are family stories that predate my own personal recollections that are all somehow connected to a song. Not too much later my own memories are forged: earliest memory, first day of school, death of a loved one, loosing ones virginity, college, breakups and everything big and small set to a soundtrack either unwittingly or by choice. The songs we loved and the songs we hated all find their way into the framework of one’s life.
I have decided to recap my life in story and music. Month by month and year by year and eventually, after hundreds of posts I will have caught up to the present and also caught up to myself. Besides, if you don't tell your own story, who will?
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